Self - Development

 Have you ever thought of living your lives?  Yes, read that again!  We are not actually living our lives. We are just engaged in creating our lives for the old us. Let's live in the present moment na!  Life becomes more meaningful when you realize the simple fact that you'll never get the same moment again!❤ Love every moment of You. Spread out the love in You. Be the one who always loves whole-heartedly. Be the one who knows that the intense love you gave will eventually find it's way back again. Be the one who always gives the best of you to every person that you love. And most of all, Be the one who Forgives. Not just others, but yourself. The one who never hates yourself, who never regrets loving others.  This world needs more people like you. The intensity of your love is not a sign of weakness, it's a symbol of strength. Be the one who's brave enough to put your heart into this world, who's brave enough to believe in the goodness of others.  At the e...

 I am Enough ! I am Enough for myself. Yes, I am worthy of all the Love and Happiness in this world. Why should I feel unworthy of all the things that I deserve for myself? I can make myself happy and pamper me with love. It's just thoughts and beliefs which make make you think that you need people around you who can give you contentment and pleasure. Yes, we do need sometimes but not everytime at every point of our life. If this is the rule, what is self love called then? There is some point in our life where we only need ourselves, where we need self-love and self-belief to deal with it. The day you find yourself,you will realize that lovers are not meant to take you on a journey but walk alongside you, they are not meant to fulfil you but appreciate how complete you are in yourself. Lovers are not meant to break your heart each day and they are not meant to make you feel unworthy and unloved. 🌺 The day you find yourself, you will realize how incredibly magnificent you're - ...

We all have got a good life and a good health! We have got everything that we need. Yaa obviously, desire is some other thing here, but  atleast we should count basic needs as our blessings🌺 Your life is your life. Actually, you make your life how you want to. It totally and absolutely depends on you how you want your life to be. You want your life to be happiest controlled by you or miserable controlled by others.  Develop your own personal vision here means run the life how you want to. Your personal vision what you want to be, how you want to feel, what you want to do and achieve and many more. You can be what you want to, you can create yourself how you want to. It's just you and you and not the world what it wants to. See, many times we lose control over mind and start going with the flow. We talk about motivation and demotivation, it's all about your mind whi controls all this. If you want you can stay motivated all the time. Why do we need motivation? Because our mind ...

Hello people,  I would like to share my short experience which you will find so common but deep down to feel if you think about it.  Yesterday, I was on a walk with my mumma. (I love spending time with her) We were walking down the roads and relishing the feels of the cold air which swayed us. The surrounding environment was blossomed by greenery which attracted us. Obviously, who won't be attracted by such amazing and beautiful greenery! In that environment, we saw people in different distances settling down there. They had nothing, seriously nothing, just a bag which was hand made with one or two clothes in it and a vessel to cook. Cooking was to be done on a little bundle of sticks. I asked my mumma, " Mumma, what they would be eating, and what about vegetables as they had nothing to store." The reply what mumma gave was so deep amd emotional, left me with no answer rather than what everyone's destiny is!  She replied, " See, how is their life. How they are sp...

Life is wondrous❤. Filled with contentment and desolation, success and failure and much more.  Life is a step forward and a step backward through ups and downs in life. These ups and downs actually define your Life. And the most important how you overcome and deal with this is How You Define Your Life.  It's often said, "Experience is the best Teacher." Have you ever went deep thinking about this statement ? What we actually do is just listen and let it go. But as and when life hits you and tries to teach you it's worth, that is the moment we complain and consider ourselves a miserable person. Why you ask questions to your life about 'Why are you doing this to me', 'Why only me?'. It's not life's fault. It's yours..  Ask yourself a question why I failed, what I did that today life is forced to hit me! Go deep, think about it!  May be it will take a lot of time to get your questions answered. But one day you will know it and your worth. Trus...

Hello people,  What is suffering? Why do we suffer?  Such questions continuously hammer our mind. Isn't it!? We are tired of such web of questions and we think and think and think and stuck in that web. Thought control us. No way to get out of it. What can I do now? Why am I feeling so lonely ? Why this am I suffering a lot? Oh my God, what is this!!!!!!!  This is how we feel exactly!  What is suffering actually? Suffering is just a reply to your thoughts and actions. How you think, how you act in different situations is totally controlled by our unconscious mind. You know, mind plays major role for our mental and emotional health. Because mind is only responsible for your depression, anxiety, suffering and a lot. If some little incident happens to us, our mind continuously thinks about it and go deep and deep and game over. We end with a conclusion of Negative thoughts and down feels.  See, how mind controls you and your life.  The question here is,  ...

What's gone is gone Yes,  it's gone.  Calm yourself  And move on!  There are many times in our life, where we regret about our past time whatever it may be related to future success or else personal life. Yaa, I totally do understand and feel how regret harm our inner- self. Obviously, experiences do teach us. Due to this feeling of regression,  we distress ourselves a lot and it causes a change in our behavior. Not only this, but for a moment we totally adapt ourselves to another zone and hate ourselves like anything. What will this regret bring you?  What will you get by harming yourself?  Yaa, regret is obviously necessary in life if we think ki we should enjoy life, we will be successful anyhow and all. For those who don't take life as an opportunity, for them I must say regression is required. Because if such thinking continues, you will waste your whole life man. Why are you in yhis world?  What are your dreams? Do you want to fly higher or ...