Self - Development

We all have got a good life and a good health! We have got everything that we need. Yaa obviously, desire is some other thing here, but  atleast we should count basic needs as our blessings🌺 Your life is your life. Actually, you make your life how you want to. It totally and absolutely depends on you how you want your life to be. You want your life to be happiest controlled by you or miserable controlled by others.  Develop your own personal vision here means run the life how you want to. Your personal vision what you want to be, how you want to feel, what you want to do and achieve and many more. You can be what you want to, you can create yourself how you want to. It's just you and you and not the world what it wants to. See, many times we lose control over mind and start going with the flow. We talk about motivation and demotivation, it's all about your mind whi controls all this. If you want you can stay motivated all the time. Why do we need motivation? Because our mind g

Hello people,  I would like to share my short experience which you will find so common but deep down to feel if you think about it.  Yesterday, I was on a walk with my mumma. (I love spending time with her) We were walking down the roads and relishing the feels of the cold air which swayed us. The surrounding environment was blossomed by greenery which attracted us. Obviously, who won't be attracted by such amazing and beautiful greenery! In that environment, we saw people in different distances settling down there. They had nothing, seriously nothing, just a bag which was hand made with one or two clothes in it and a vessel to cook. Cooking was to be done on a little bundle of sticks. I asked my mumma, " Mumma, what they would be eating, and what about vegetables as they had nothing to store." The reply what mumma gave was so deep amd emotional, left me with no answer rather than what everyone's destiny is!  She replied, " See, how is their life. How they are sp

Life is wondrous❤. Filled with contentment and desolation, success and failure and much more.  Life is a step forward and a step backward through ups and downs in life. These ups and downs actually define your Life. And the most important how you overcome and deal with this is How You Define Your Life.  It's often said, "Experience is the best Teacher." Have you ever went deep thinking about this statement ? What we actually do is just listen and let it go. But as and when life hits you and tries to teach you it's worth, that is the moment we complain and consider ourselves a miserable person. Why you ask questions to your life about 'Why are you doing this to me', 'Why only me?'. It's not life's fault. It's yours..  Ask yourself a question why I failed, what I did that today life is forced to hit me! Go deep, think about it!  May be it will take a lot of time to get your questions answered. But one day you will know it and your worth. Trus

Hello people,  What is suffering? Why do we suffer?  Such questions continuously hammer our mind. Isn't it!? We are tired of such web of questions and we think and think and think and stuck in that web. Thought control us. No way to get out of it. What can I do now? Why am I feeling so lonely ? Why this am I suffering a lot? Oh my God, what is this!!!!!!!  This is how we feel exactly!  What is suffering actually? Suffering is just a reply to your thoughts and actions. How you think, how you act in different situations is totally controlled by our unconscious mind. You know, mind plays major role for our mental and emotional health. Because mind is only responsible for your depression, anxiety, suffering and a lot. If some little incident happens to us, our mind continuously thinks about it and go deep and deep and game over. We end with a conclusion of Negative thoughts and down feels.  See, how mind controls you and your life.  The question here is,  How to control our thoughts an

What's gone is gone Yes,  it's gone.  Calm yourself  And move on!  There are many times in our life, where we regret about our past time whatever it may be related to future success or else personal life. Yaa, I totally do understand and feel how regret harm our inner- self. Obviously, experiences do teach us. Due to this feeling of regression,  we distress ourselves a lot and it causes a change in our behavior. Not only this, but for a moment we totally adapt ourselves to another zone and hate ourselves like anything. What will this regret bring you?  What will you get by harming yourself?  Yaa, regret is obviously necessary in life if we think ki we should enjoy life, we will be successful anyhow and all. For those who don't take life as an opportunity, for them I must say regression is required. Because if such thinking continues, you will waste your whole life man. Why are you in yhis world?  What are your dreams? Do you want to fly higher or just sit back and watch peo

Hello people,  Yes, you read correct. It's commitment to your growth means your dedication towards your inner-self growth. There would be lot of questions raising in your mind, what dedication and what commitments, etc etc. Shhhh, deep breathe. Let me explain you.  Commitment to growth is to your heartly dedication to success. You rely on your dedication throughout your whole journey towards success. Rely on dedication is if you have a strong dedication and a strong mindset nothing can stop you from achieving.  Commitment is a self-development quality which when fixed in life, takes you up higher and higher. This commitment makes so many changes in life that we are ready to absorb in our life. Even the changes which we aren't able to make in ourselves. It makes us follow habits that make us little closer to our success. We start doing things which keeps us happy and obviously, if we are happy things go good.  Here is the main point to be focused on.  Commitment builds YOU . Com