Self - Development

 When YOU are the person who is always there for others- you feel a lot. You have depths within you, an ocean for a heart. You give and you give and you give. You never know how to stop yourselves from pouring into those you love. There are moments where you're left wondering if someone will ever give you the love that you so freely give to others, moments where you wonder if there will ever come a time when someone asks how you are doing, how you are coping, how you are healing.  See, sometimes you are the person who is there for everyone else, needs some there for them. Sometimes the person who smiles the biggest, holds the biggest hurt. Sometimes the person who encourages everyone around them, needs to be told that they are appreciated, that they matter, sometimes they need to be encouraged, sometimes they need to be held- no matter how strong they seem, no matter how brightly they shine. So, if you're the who is always there for , know that your heart is rare. Know that you

"Be soft Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate.  Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place". Being soft does not mean being weak. Softness comes with being strong. And you're only strong because you have been through a lot, you have learnt a lot. Now you're strong, you're soft too. You know and understand how things can be and how to deal with them.  Sometimes the changes we don't want, are the changes we need to grow.  Everyone wants happiness, No one wants pain. But you can't have a rainbow, Without a little rain." Every experience whether good or bad is very important to come in your life. Because after that, you get to know the real you. How strong or weak are you, how positive or negative are you. Learn from this phases of life and move on with expectations but a smile on your face.  Remember,  Life is

 You have got to work on yourself day by day.  You've got to remember that your entire life is a work in progress. The life which you'll be creating, the life which you dreamt of and the life which you want to live to the fullest. That you're going to have bad days but also good ones to balance everything out. You will go through a lot of bad things in your life where people will treat you bad, your friends will betray you. You will be low, you will be depressed and overthinking. You will be Broken. People will break your heart. But you need to pick yourself up on the bad days. If you want to transform you need to work on your bad days because good days are very easy to work and you can only be better when you work on you shitty days and bounce back stronger.  You've got to know that sometimes you're going to get your heart broken, while other times, you're the one who's going to cause the hurting. You've got to accept that nothing ever goes as planned a

 LET IT GO!  Why it is said to let go of the things which aren't bringing you peace? Which aren't letting you to be yourself? Letting go of things is a thought or a state in your phase of growth. When you let things go, you start developing  a better version of yourself, The Real You.  Letting go means accepting that something better is meant for you, it means appreciating your worth and moving on. You are more important for yourself than any person in your life. If that person is making you feel down and undervalued, don't think twice to move on from that person. Be with people who value you, who add value to your life by being with you.  Letting go means having faith in life and the lessons you must learn. Every phase in your life teaches you something that is important for you. Every person in your life teaches you the 'reality of this world.' Letting go means choosing love over heartbreak, choosing happiness over pain and choosing Yourself over Them. Letting go

 It may take months or years but what's meant for you will always find it's way to you.  It may take a lot of patience, a lot of overcoming challenges, a lot of moments to despair and a lot of heartbreaks, but what's meant for you will always be worth the wait. It will make the painful years a little easier to swallow. It will make the journey a little sweeter to look back on.  Every challenge, every heartbreak, every setback is meant to get us closer to what's truly meant for us because God doesn't make us suffer for no good reason. God doesn't take away blessings from us unless he knows it's not going to bless us in the future. While we may never know why God does things a certain way or why he chooses to teach us some hard lessons, we have to believe that it's all part of a bigger plan.  It may take a while but what's meant for you will not mistakenly be given to someone else. And I think that's the beauty of faith, knowing that after everythi